The Real Reason People Buy
People don't buy products. They buy a version of themselves they haven't become yet. Once you understand this, everything about marketing changes.
People don't buy products. They buy better versions of themselves. Every purchase is an identity decision disguised as a practical one.
When someone buys a Tesla, they're not buying a car. They're buying the story they get to tell about themselves — that they're forward-thinking, that they care about the planet, that they can afford to care about the planet.
When someone buys a Moleskine notebook instead of a $2 one from the dollar store, they're not paying for paper quality. They're paying for the feeling that they're the type of person who has important things to write down.
This is the fundamental mistake most founders make with marketing. They talk about features. They talk about specs. They talk about what the product does.
Nobody cares what the product does. They care what the product makes them.
The Identity Gap
There's always a gap between who your customer is and who they want to be. Your product lives in that gap. Your marketing should speak to that gap.
Apple understood this before anyone else. "Think Different" wasn't about computers. It was about identity. Buy this, and you're the kind of person who thinks different.
Nike didn't sell shoes. They sold the identity of an athlete. "Just Do It" is an identity statement, not a product description.
How to Apply This
Next time you write copy, don't ask "what does this product do?" Ask "who does this product help my customer become?"
The answer to that question is your entire marketing strategy.
“People don't buy products. They buy a version of themselves they haven't become yet. Once you understand this, everything about marketing changes.”
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